RIVER LINE DATE NIGHT

This is a quick little tip for a date. I live by the Raritan River and one day i was walking around it until i walked into people's backyards, and that is when it hit me. Have a picnic by the river. Almost anywhere you go there is a state park by a river/lake.
I really like this date because I am an outdoors kind of person, and most likely you have to pay to get in, but besides that, it'll be a relatively cheap date because you would bring your own food. If you want to spice it up a little, you can also go canoeing and kayaking as well.
This is fun because it allows you to either relax or be adventurous but either way you still get to spend it with your other half, and that is all that matters<3

CTFXC IS THE BEST COUPLE

So today is another one of those topics where I want to talk about someone, and this time, it's going to be one of my favorite couples. Throughout the weeks I will do this a-lot because I really like couples. Today I want to talk about the people behind CTFXC Charles Trippy and Alli Trippy. A little back story is they both film their lives on YouTube everyday since May 2009. Charles is now the Bassist for We The kings. Oh and I should mention when they got married I guess.
Anyways, in September 2011 Charles decided to join We The Kings as the new basist. On November 20, 2011, Charles and Ali got married. Corey Videl and his team did an amazing job filming the magical day. This is where I give the couple credit because a few days after Charles left to go back on tour. I guess in today's age it's easier especially because one, the couple can facetime and because they video tape each other's lives so to me it's like they get to see each other everyday.
In February 2012, Charles was emitted into the hospital while on tour because he passed out. He later found out he had a tumor in his brain and he had a seizure.  Ali was in Thailand on Vacation and took the next possibly flight to meet him in the hospital.The couple flew home and a week later Charles had brain surgery.
During all of this time, his buddy Shay Butler from the Shaytards flew out to visit him. After the surgery everything was swell, but he couldn't drive, so kudos to Alli for one, driving him everywhere, and two after he went back on tour, she bought him a golf cart that he uses to get around.
Charles continued back on tour and everything was going well until a year later he faced another Seizure, and then, I think a month later he had another one. Charles went back on tour but this time Alli joined him. This tour had to be my favorite because I saw the couple all the time. Towards the end though, there was a video that showed Alli being "abusive" because she kicked Charles in the nuts, when clearly he asked for it.
I really find them my favorite couple because one its truly them, there is no drama that you see on TV and nothing to make them "look" bad. If you don't like them then its like why we don't like one another, because of their personalities and not mistakes. I also really like them because I don't see them fight, and I mean all relationships fight but they don't publicize it. Therefore CTFXC is one of the best couples and I wish them the best of luck at everything that comes to them<3

BACK TO SCHOOL DATING LIFE

If you are like me, it means you have started on going back to school, which can be very fun. It's a time to see old friends and make new friends, and even develop crushes.
Today I want to give some insightful tips on high school relationships.
Rule number one: keep your love life out of everyone else's life, first off most people don't really care and second people are judgmental so they will judge you every chance they get. The judging can put pressure on you and end up ruining your relationship. I've also found it better to just leave out all the fights and stuff when telling people when you do tell people.
Number two, it's a new year which means old friends and new people. Be social. Seriously, nothing can happen if you just try to be nice, I mean granted people are mean but who cares. For girls I would suggest to not really try, it can scare the guys away and if you develop a crush on a guy don't tell people, it''ll make your chances even harder. And for guys, just go for it, if you ask nicely, most likely you will score a date.
High school is the time to experiment. I would suggest to not really go into a relationship and just date. It's a time where you learn about yourself and about other people. If you put a limit on the amount of guys you see you won't really find the right guy and you don't really learn about yourself. Put yourself out there, you'll grow stronger and smarter.
Anyways I hope this was helpful and I will see you tomorrow :) <3

MOVE ON ALREADY

So I know break ups are tough and no one ever wants to just move on. Some people are better at accepting it than others and here is where it crosses the line.
So I have a few pet peeves about break-ups, number one is when like a 12 year old has a "girlfriend/boyfriend" and then they break up, the child is like my life is over, I am never gonna find love again. It's like no, shut up, go take a nap, I have a juice box for you. And it's not even just about like middle schoolers, same with high schoolers. Life is just beginning and everyone will find someone, so stop giving up.
I understand that relationships are hard and so it break-ups but that doesn't mean your life is over. Actually break-ups teach you a lot about yourself and about people. 
My second pet peeve isn't really like bad but when people break-up there is a good chance it won't work out again. I'm not saying to give up, but it's best if you just try to move on. I have a friend who dated a girl for a good year or maybe longer. Now it's been over a year since they broke up. He comes to me for advice about how to get her back. But honestly you have to see how she is treating you, because some chicks can be a real bitch and that is when you say screw it and move on. You have to face reality, hopes and dreams are good to have, but see it from a realistic point of view.
I don't have the right advice for this, I don't know how to tell people to move on, but hey just cry it out. Wear PJ's, eat ice cream and watch horrible movies and cry at the stupidest things. There is no right way to move on, each one is different.
So the point here is if you break up with someone understand that it is not the end of the world, there are gazillions of people in this world. You are going to find someone I promise, and if you really want to get back together with someone just show how much you care. Like stop being a coward and buy her flowers or go to her house on a lawn mower with a boom box and play 80 songs. If none of those things work than move on already, because honestly no one wants to hear how much you miss her and ask for advice all the time for over a year. You have to learn to move on sometimes.
And I know this advice may be hard on some people and seem harsh but it's the truth. So I hope this helped you and I will see your beautiful faces tomorrow. <3

LOVE DOESN'T MATTER

So today is going to be a little different. I don't have advice, I mean I could but I like this topic better. In an age like today, sexuality is important. But it shouldn't be. And it pisses me off.
Should it matter if a boy likes a boy or a girl likes a girl. It shouldn't. They aren't any different from us. Actually they are pretty much us. I never understood why people make a big deal, I don't understand how someone can hate a person because of who they love.
I have two examples of this. One, Lucas Cruikshank has been out of the closet for three years, but didn't think it was necessary to tell the public. He had thousands and thousands of people like his work, and just earlier this week, Lucas admitted to liking boys. I was reading through people's comment on his video and there was a lot of hate. How can someone who used to like the guy change their opinion just because of who he likes? I mean do we hate people because they like the opposite sex. 
I understand that, for society, being "straight" is the norm. But I believe it's a time for a change. Because example number two, one of my biggest idols is Adam Lambert, I supported him since the beginning of his adventure on American Idol.
 Lambert is an example of why judging is not fair. He had everything it took to win Idol, but because he was flamboyant about his sexuality, he came in second place. Only reason I am mentioning him is because everyone is so judgmental. Why does society care so much about the "gays" and not about the "straights." Society is so messed up because some of the best people who could make it big, don't get the chance because of who they love. Love doesn't matter. It shouldn't determine how people portray them. Everyone is human so get over it. Stop making homosexuality a taboo thing.

15 RANDOM THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT SEX

So in this post today I am gonna be like your mother. I have some statements about sex, which is kind of all based on self-opinions. I hope from this they will help mold your views on sex

1.  Age does matter.
2.  The best protective sex is to wait.
3.  The second best is to be on the pill and use condoms.
4.  Make sure having sex is worth it. I don't want you to regret it.
5. Saying that, make sure the person is the one you want to lose it to.
6. The same concepts apply with every person.
7. Be cautious about your body and health. 
8. Guys always think about sex.
9. But that doesn't mean they're faking their relationship for it.
10. Studies show that teenage boys care more about the relationship than the sex.
11. Think about what having sex can do to you and the other person.
12. Societal approval should determine if you are ready. If the thought that Society will disapprove your actions and it bothers you then you aren't ready.
13. Sex is like buying a car. You have to test each one out(as in dating) and figure out with one works best.
14. Sex is also a part of you. You really shouldn't give it away to anyone.
15. Sex can be addicting, so also make sure you are at the right age with the right person.

Again these are my views on sex and what I know. Also random fact did you know the sperm is really good for your face, it can actually reduce winkles. I hope you understand that I am not shoving my beliefs down your throat. Have a wonderful day and I hope to talk to you tomorrow.

THE FIRST KISS

So you scored a date, I'm assuming, right? well that will also mean you have to get through the date, which is challenging. But what happened when you drop the girl off at the front door? It's the first kiss!
The first kiss, no matter what, will always be awkward. Get over it! There is nothing you can do to fix that. But here are some tips to make the night more memorable . 
First. Make sure you are going to go out with her again. You don't want to lead the girl on, it is one of the worse thing a guy can do.
two. Find the right time, like when you are both done talking and you are about to leave. Her hair will glow in the moonlight and the smile will light up the dark sky. Find that moment.
third. Lean in, and just give a peck. It will be a little clean, because no girl really wants to have a slobbery wet first kiss. It will probably make us not like you, and you will likely not see a second date.
Finally. you just scored a still kinda awkward first kiss. But it'll be a cliche, cute first kiss, that really is pretty awesome. I hope this worked and I will write to you guys tomorrow. :)<3