Here is something that in a relationship, no one can ever avoid. Fights. They will always happen. But there are a few things that each person can do that can either eliminate the amount of fights or that can prevent each other from hurting at the end of a fight.
So number one, if you can realize that something you may say will create a reaction don't say it, unless it is important and will bring you guys even closer together. This is important because your words can very indeed start heated arguments. By recognizing that what you say can start an argument you will be able to start decreasing the amounts of arguments.
Number two. Walk away from fights. If you and your other half is starting to get into a heated argument just walk away. This is the hardest thing to do. but by doing this, you can either earn great respect and look very mature. I suggest that you just say this is stupid and walk out or apologize even if you aren't wrong.
Number three. this tip is more for the guys. Sometimes in arguments you can say something really mean and it will cause girls to breakdown crying, not always, but sometimes. I suggest for a guy, to also just stop fighting. Apologize because it can make everything worse in the end.
I only give this advice cause I'm a sucker for flowers. If the two of you get into a fight and it is a major fight that ends up harming one another, well then, I think it is the guys duty to just go and buy something to show that you are sorry. Actually do something to show it, and girls can do that same. It shouldn't always be a guys fault kind of thing. Lets just admit know that we aren't so angelic as everyone thinks we are. We start fights and we should take responsibility for that too!
I hope this advice helped eliminate the amount of fights you and your other half have. If you want more opinions just contact me at its.a.love.thing13@gmail.com and I will promise to answer you back. Have a wonderful day and don't forget to tell someone you love them today <3
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